When I tell people that climbing is my new found hobby, most people who prefer to keep their feet solidly planted on the ground, will tell me that it’s too risky. By no means am I an adrenaline junky or someone who loves heights, but after I have been climbing now for a few months, I can’t help but laugh since I can think of many things I do on a daily basis that are far more riskier on paper. Driving on the freeway, road biking down a steep hill or just down the street in traffic for example- are all things far riskier than climbing. The trick with minimizing risk in climbing, and perhaps in life as well, is finding that safe partner in crime to enjoy the challenge with. My grandparents who were each other’s partner in crime for over 63 years had a cabin within walking distance to Lovers Leap, so as a child I grew up with my grandmother telling stories about the legend of two lovers who came from two different tribes – who supposedly plunged to their death on purpose to be together. Now in no way am I saying that is a romantic option I’d like to ever pursue- it’s just that this location had many fond family memories from growing up near the infamous climbing site, so perhaps it is fitting that I’ve always wanted to climb Lover’s Leap.

Last month there were seven of us who traveled to my family cabin for a weekend climbing trip to both Lovers Leap and Phantom Spires. The seven of us were comprised of four experienced lead climbers, while the remaining three newbies included two Germans and myself. With a late start on Saturday to climb the Leap, and a realization that a water pipe had broken at the cabin so we would have no hot water for the weekend, the climbing trip was starting a bit off from our original plan. As we hiked into our planned route destination, I was excited not only to finally climb this mountain that I grew up gazing at as a child, but furthermore, I’d get to share this experience with my newfound climbing friends and a German whom had unexpectedly become very close to me. But about 30 minutes into a hike to find our planned route, our hikers in the lead kept searching our climbing route maps, while the rest of us in the back were worse than five year olds on an long road trip, constantly asking “Are we there yet?” and “How much further?”

At one point our hike became an off route scramble to where half of us decided scrambling upon mossy ledges was worth the risk to find the route faster, while the other half decided to safely hike around. Although I started in the original scrambling group, I soon did a gut check risk assessment and decided that if I were to break a limb, I’d rather do it climbing, than ungloriously scrambling upon moss on the way to the route. After about an hour hike, and being entertained by learning the kind of German words I would have never learned from my Deutsch father’s side of the family, we finally heard our lead climbers call out that they found our climbing route- or at least what appeared to be on paper.

As we assembled our gear and decided not to split into two climbing groups, we realized it would take much longer on a multi-pitch route with so many climbers; however, again the risk in going slower was well worth the reward that day for some quality bonding time while waiting on ledges. I was deemed the stewardess of the group, being in charge of carrying the pack with water and snacks up the famous dike system walls. All was sunny and warm until on the third pitch, a gust of wind nearly knocked me off my already precarious balance from carrying the food laden pack. Upon reaching the last ledge to the final pitch at the top, it was cooler, but nothing note worthy of the weather at the time. But being the second climber of the group, I had plenty of time to sit and wait, while the wind gusts became more frequent and the cloud cover became more prevalent. By the time we began the last pitch to the top, I had already begun shivering between laying against the rock hard granite and a rock hard German trying to keep me warm. Despite frequent bouts of laughter, I couldn’t hide my teeth chattering, and the lead climbers couldn’t dispute the increasingly darker clouds hovering over us.

After very little debate, we decided that the suddenly foul weather wasn't worth the risk of going the final pitch to the summit. But as I sat there disappointed and waiting for my turn to rappel, I also couldn't help laughing at the nonstop crass jokes from my climbing mates. When it was finally my turn to rappel down the 350ft ledge, my stomach ached from laughing and I had to take a moment to compose myself. I looked out across the beautiful, massive view of the valley of mountains, I looked up toward my close climbing friends at the anchor whom I'd only met a few months before by chance at the gym, and I slowly lowered myself down to the German who had never been on my radar til I bumped into him at Beer Festival a month or so before. And it's then that I realized, once again, climbing had widened my perspective, yet this time, it wasn't in the successful act of climbing up, it was in the vulnerable act of rappelling down. After all, everything in this moment was never planned in my life on paper: from the very act of climbing anything other than a career ladder, to the new people I let into my life- none of it makes sense on paper, yet all of it makes perfect sense in my life. Rappelling off Lovers Leap reminded me once again that planning is all well and good but sometimes the best and most beautiful moments in life come from having the courage to let go of desired plans and just let life take us where we need to be.

Once I let go of the anticlimactic climb that day, we ended up having an incredibly memorable climbing weekend. Perhaps it was the ample supply of jäger while BBQing off the back deck later that night, perhaps it was the great unplanned climbing routes we did the next day at Phantom Spires, or perhaps it was the eclectic yet amazing group of individuals with whom I made lasting memories with. All of it was well worth the risk of doing something unplanned and nonsensical on paper. And the reward? Well the reward was well...perhaps the best way to describe the reward is to use the lyrics from a recent Macklemore song...

"And we danced, and we cried, and we laughed and had a really, really, really good time.Take my hand, let's have a blast. And we'll remember this moment for the rest of our lives."